The Power of Big Goals and Deeper Whys

Unraveling the ‘Why’ in My 48 Mile Grand Canyon Run – Setting monumental goals is a journey many of us undertake, especially in leadership and personal growth. However, the true transformation often lies not in the goal itself, but in the profound ‘why’ that drives us. This story isn’t just about physical endurance; it’s about uncovering the deeper motivations behind setting big goals.

Background – In the journey of leadership and personal growth, setting big goals is almost a rite of passage. But what often goes unexamined is the profound ‘why’ behind these goals. It’s this deeper understanding that transforms a daunting challenge into a powerful catalyst for change and growth. My own experience with a physically and mentally taxing adventure – the Grand Canyon Rim-to-Rim-to-Rim run – unraveled this very truth for me.

The Challenge – In 2023, I embarked on an ambitious endeavor to complete the Rim-to-Rim-to-Rim run in the Grand Canyon. This was no ordinary feat: a grueling 48-mile journey, traversing from the South Rim to the North Rim and back, with a staggering elevation gain of about 12,000 feet. It was a test of endurance that took me roughly 18 hours to complete.

At first glance, my motivation seemed straightforward – a test of physical boundaries, an exploration of personal limits. However, as I dove deeper into this journey, I discovered layers of complexity that extended far beyond the physical dimension of the challenge.

Navigating Change – During this period, my life was marked by significant transitions. Professionally, I was navigating new territories, exploring uncharted paths in my career. On a more personal note, my oldest child stepped into a new phase of life, leaving for college. These changes, though different in nature, collectively marked a period of transformation and introspection.

As I trained for the run, I realized that this physical challenge was becoming a metaphor for my life’s transitions. It was not just about conquering the Canyon; it was about understanding and embracing the changes unfolding in my life.

Discovering the ‘Why’ – As I ran through the breathtaking trails of the Grand Canyon, each step was a meditation, each mile a journey within. The solitude of the Canyon provided a backdrop against which I could reflect on the whirlwind of changes I was experiencing.

It dawned on me that this run was less about proving my physical capabilities and more about seeking clarity amidst life’s upheavals. The physical act of running, with its rhythmic, almost hypnotic quality, allowed me to process my thoughts and emotions. It became a tool to navigate the complexities of change, offering me a way to focus my energy and find balance.

Reflections and Lessons Learned – This experience was revelatory in many ways. It underscored the importance of understanding the underlying reasons for our goals. Often, we set objectives based on what we think we should achieve, without delving into why we want to achieve them. However, when our goals are anchored in a deep personal ‘why,’ they become more than just targets; they transform into pathways for growth and self-discovery.

For leaders and individuals alike, this lesson is invaluable. It’s easy to get caught up in the pursuit of ambitious goals. But the true essence of these pursuits lies in the understanding of what drives us. Is it a quest for personal growth, a desire to overcome fears, or a need to find meaning amidst change? When we align our goals with our inner motivations, we unlock a powerful source of resilience and determination.

The Grand Canyon Rim-to-Rim-to-Rim run was more than just a physical challenge for me; it was a journey of self-discovery. It helped me realize that the most profound goals are those connected to our personal narratives and life transitions.

As you set out to achieve your own big goals, I encourage you to explore the deeper ‘why’ behind them. Understand that these goals can serve as powerful tools in navigating life’s changes, offering clarity and purpose. Whether you’re leading an organization, navigating career changes, or facing personal milestones, let your goals be guided by a deeper understanding of yourself and your journey. In doing so, you’ll not only achieve what you set out to do but also discover a wellspring of personal growth and fulfillment.

See you next week,

Brent, your Rivr Guide